Have you ever been in a situation of really wanting something to work out, telling you that everything would go as expected, and in the end the exact opposite happens? A book that talks about success, happy moments and football glories. But, to build a winning athlete, we will talk about obstacles: expectations, fears, frustrations, demands, disappointments and the most varied difficulties that both athletes and their families face together, in their daily journey, in this journey in sport. It is a systemic approach that places the athlete in their family and sporting context, showing how environmental factors interfere with their results and performance, with the objective of guiding and helping families to reflect and evaluate the points of conflict and relevant variables that can interfere with the process. It will be an instrument of transformation in the sports environment, especially in grassroots football, offering   guidance and strengthening to the family and the athlete, in the face of their dreams, anxieties and main challenges.